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Talking is Easy, but Knowing When to Stay Silent Shows Real Understanding

Vijay Kumar Gupta
6 min readJan 10, 2025

In a world where communication has never been more accessible, words are abundant. Social media, messaging apps, podcasts, and endless conversations in our day-to-day lives mean that we are constantly talking or listening to others. But amidst this ocean of words, there exists a rare and profound skill: the ability to know when to stay silent. This is not just a matter of etiquette or politeness; it’s an art, a discipline, and a sign of true understanding.

To truly grasp the value of silence, we must explore its role in personal relationships, professional settings, and even self-growth. Silence isn’t the absence of communication; it’s often where the most meaningful connections are forged.

The Allure of Talking: Why It’s Easy to Speak

Talking feels natural. From the moment we learn to form words, we are encouraged to express ourselves. Conversations make us feel connected, understood, and validated. Sharing opinions, cracking jokes, or even complaining can provide a sense of relief and belonging.

But there’s a downside. We often talk to fill awkward silences, to assert dominance in discussions, or simply because we think we’re supposed to. This knee-jerk reaction to speak can sometimes do more harm than good. When…

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Vijay Kumar Gupta
Vijay Kumar Gupta

Written by Vijay Kumar Gupta

Vijay Gupta is an inspiring public speaker and social entrepreneur who has dedicated his life to bringing about positive change and empowering communities.

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